Are you on Facebook? Twitter? My Space? Hi5? Congratulations! You are
on a social network! Have you ever taken the time to figure out why you
are there though? When i got on Facebook at first, it was because most
of my friends were on and they kept babbling about how cool it was. So i
just opened an account and got in. It was actually fun….making new
online friends, posting pictures, updating statuses, chatting,
etc…..fun. Then there was twitter (my personal favourite). When i got on
Twitter for the first time, i was like “WTF goes on here?” But once i
got to grips with the concept, I became so much addicted (i still am
addicted anyway)
Flirting is easiest on social networks because you don’t actually get to talk to the person face to face so there is absence of that discomfort and anxiety. You can just lie about how nice his/her picture is or just post positive comments on his/her status updates. But can you really find love on a social network? It is common for two people on a social network to arrange for a meet-up. What happens after the meet-up is solely dependent on the two parties involved. If you just wanna be casual friends from there on, fine. If you want to be ‘friends with benefits’, its really up to you. But has it ever occurred to you that you can actually find love? Yes you can. It’s just up to you. If there’s mutual attraction and you like each other, why cant you take it a step further and date? What happens is really up to you.
Now ladies, be careful here. Some guys can be really coy. He’ll put up with all your drama just to get in your pants. Once you meet that online friend in person, take things slowly. Get to know each other more. If you find out you like him/her, go for it. People find love at different places. Could be at a restaurant, at a party or at a beach. So why cant it be on a social network? My point is, once you meet that online friend in person, what happens next is really up to you and its just a matter of choice. You can transform that online friendship into a beautiful thing. You could meet up over the weekend and go grab lunch together. Or how about going to the movies some time? You will be surprised how quickly you’ll get to know and like each other. Then the love part will come naturally. People have done it. You can too, just be careful.
OK so here’s what you can do on a social network:can you really find love on a social network?
- Crave for attention (sorry ladies)
- Post whatever sh*t is on your mind
- Make new friends and chat online
- Find out whether a pic you took is nice
- Find love (oh wait, really?)
Flirting is easiest on social networks because you don’t actually get to talk to the person face to face so there is absence of that discomfort and anxiety. You can just lie about how nice his/her picture is or just post positive comments on his/her status updates. But can you really find love on a social network? It is common for two people on a social network to arrange for a meet-up. What happens after the meet-up is solely dependent on the two parties involved. If you just wanna be casual friends from there on, fine. If you want to be ‘friends with benefits’, its really up to you. But has it ever occurred to you that you can actually find love? Yes you can. It’s just up to you. If there’s mutual attraction and you like each other, why cant you take it a step further and date? What happens is really up to you.
Now ladies, be careful here. Some guys can be really coy. He’ll put up with all your drama just to get in your pants. Once you meet that online friend in person, take things slowly. Get to know each other more. If you find out you like him/her, go for it. People find love at different places. Could be at a restaurant, at a party or at a beach. So why cant it be on a social network? My point is, once you meet that online friend in person, what happens next is really up to you and its just a matter of choice. You can transform that online friendship into a beautiful thing. You could meet up over the weekend and go grab lunch together. Or how about going to the movies some time? You will be surprised how quickly you’ll get to know and like each other. Then the love part will come naturally. People have done it. You can too, just be careful.
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