How To Get Her Attention – WOMAN

I’ve had lots of complaints from the guys that that I’m always giving the ladies tips on how to do this or how to do that. Or what not to do in general. “Its like I don’t give a fuck about the guys ” that’s what Kevin from South Africa even emailed! I found it quite hilarious! So I decided to do an article for the guys today! How to get her attention!!

I must confess that this article was initially inspired by a true love of mine whose name deserves mentioning! Marilyn Nana Aba Arthur! I tried getting her attention years ago. I failed miserably though! Kudos love. I’m sure I have it now (smiles). Because every girl is different, tricks that get one girl’s attention might turn another girl’s attention away! So if there’s a girl whose attention you want, what do you do? How do you know that your perfect little plan is not going to backfire!
No matter how old, young, rich, poor, shy, or friendly she is, all women have an underlying common denominator! Make the right combination of choices and you might just get more than her attention. Who knows , she might even drop them for you!

1.Be confident!

Don’t let any past bad experiences prevent you from identifying opportunities that are available to you in the present. If you’ve had a relationship that went sour, learn from it and put it in the past. It’s not healthy to dwell on failed relationships, and it’s probably not very attractive either( don’t go talking about your past relationship expecting sympathy). Embrace what life is giving you now, not what it could have given you in the past! Be comfortable with who you are . Be confident in your abilities and she will notice them too. Be careful not to come off as arrogant or selfish ! Its easy to misread exuberant confident for a cocky prick ! Dont be a Cristiano Ronaldo or Usain Bolt !…a sublime Beckam or Wayne Rooney will do!!

2.There’s nothing like “she out of my league” or “she’s beyond my reach”

Ever wondered how on earth Jay z with those lips got Beyonce ? Well its quite simple ! Exhibit good manners. Girls love guys who are polite and courteous. those bad boy days are long gone . Don’t do or say things that people consider offensive, including swearing and making sexist/racist/etc. jokes or comments. If you act like a gentleman, exhibiting your respect for females and other people in general, girls will be more likely to welcome your company. It might look “cool” to your guy friends, but it’s a real turnoff to the girls. they know that a good man is hard to find ! Be the good man( if even it makes you sick) . In the end the reward is always greater than the risk( with women)!
Do common things that are gentlemanly, like opening the door for a her, letting her cut you in line, saying “excuse me” and offering to help her carry her stuff. Doing the small things is really easy, and girls pay attention to them much more than guys do ! It sounds basic, but a lot of guys assume women are stupid or ditzy or classless. This is unfair, and it won’t make you very many friends among females. Think before you speak negatively about girls as a whole.

3.Look Good

This have probably been number one. But I rank being polite more important. No girl wants to go out with a guy that looks like a homeless and smells like he just shit on himslef. Guys keep yourself well groomed and in shape. If you want to get a woman to like you, basic cleanliness and appearance are extremely important. Girls notice things like bad breath, flab and greasy hair before they notice that winning personality. Give them a chance to see your good qualities by making a good first impression with your appearance. Dress well but stay within your budget . You don’t want to look like Prince Charming when you really are a
Robin Hood ! Stay fit . Do push ups,go jogging, visit the gym.You shouldn’t overdo it though! Having too many muscles can make it look like you care more about going to the gym than gaining her attention. In other words, stay fit without being obsessive.

4.Make eye contact

Never ever stare like a stalker, but don’t avoid eye contact either. When your eyes meet hers, hold that contact there for a brief while, you may throw in a grin or a smile if it feels right, and look away and continue with your business. She’ll wonder why you didn’t pay too much attention ! If you are really interested and really want to get her attention, have conversations with her that go beyond flirtation! Your goal will be trying to get a date on a weekend. Find out what makes her feel good – what are her interests and how does she spend her weekends? Find out what the two of you have in common and attempt to build on that. Maybe she loves to go to the cinema and she can’t get any of her friends to go with her, maybe there is a particular show that she has been dying to attend, but does not want to go alone. This is the perfect time to illustrate to her how interested you are without having to verbalize it, which could be awkward in the beginning. “If you take an interest in the things she enjoys, it gives you the opportunity to get to know her in a very personal way.

5.Speak to her!

That’s the most important of all. You can be confident, be nice, look good and make eye contact but a girl will be interested in you if she doesn’t know you exist. Make an effort to talk to her, even if approaching her seems scary at first. Good luck out there!

BEING SINGLE

Everyone will be single at some point – maybe for months or even years on end. It’s often just about being patient. There’s nothing wrong with waiting for the right person. It can be frustrating, I know . But it’s natural. After all everyone was born single and even twins come one at a time ! There is a truck load of benefits to being single. You can do what you want with who you want – whether it’s fucking a random friend on facebook or flirting with a junkie on BBM. You get more time with your friends, you can go extreme and you don’t need to worry about what your partner will think all the time. The world is yours. In the long-run you’ll probably spend most of your life in a relationship – so enjoy being single while you can!
Being single can be fun. It is certainly not the end of the world. Trust me,there are far more seroius problems that are more depressing than being single—hunger and homelessness, for instance. Even with a broken heart, people are still standing. Still breathing. There are still so many possibilities for single people. In Britain, according to the Daily Mail, “the number of 25 to 45 year old women living alone has doubled over the past two decades, with twice as many single women buying properties as single men” If you believe the self-reports, most of these people are deliriously happy. They’re independent and empowered. They paint their bedrooms pink. They don’t worry about having kids. They buy great clothes, take great trips, and don’t want anyone to cramp their style.
They’d never dream of making someone else the centre of their life. Oh, yeah, and another thing. They’re incredibly lonely. Why do you think they invented… self-servicing? Not that they’ll admit it but saying you are lonely is worse than saying you have cancer. Everybody needs someone else to nurture, and someone to stand up for them, and someone to plan the future with, and someone with whom they share a past. If you have all that its indeed a bonus. But it takes time until you get there ! So until then you will remain single so while it lasts make the freaking best out of it!

Components of Self-Management

Goal Setting

In many educational settings, teachers and other professionals set goals for their students. Students may also be active participants in the goals setting process, which may increase student academic performance. For example, in a 2006 research study conducted by Gureasko-Moore, DuPaul, and White, students were asked to record the problems that they were having with classroom preparation behaviors (such as coming to class on time with the necessary materials). The students made a checklist of solutions to these problems and decided how many they would complete the first week. Improvements were made over the 4 weeks of the study.

When teaching goal-setting to students, there are several points to keep in mind:

• Goals should be specific.
• Goals should be challenging, but achievable.
• The attainment of goals, at least in the early stages of learning, should be immediate, rather than far-off.
• Teachers should provide feedback about success of goal achievement.

Introduction to Self-Management

According to Alberto and Troutman (2009), “the best person to manage a student’s behavior is the student” him or herself. An individual knows what type of reinforcement/reward he or she wants better than anyone and is the only individual that will be part of his or her entire educational and life experience. Mastery of self-management skills is essential for independent functioning. Therefore, it is important for individuals, whether they are on the autism spectrum or not, to learn to monitor, reinforce, and maintain their own positive behavior. This type of behavioral intervention is known as self-management. Self-management may also be thought of as self-discipline or self-control, but it is more than simply a matter of keeping behavior “under control.”




In this issue of Positively Autism, we will describe how you can teach your children or students to use various elements of self-management including:

• Goal Setting
• Self-Recording of Data
• Self-Evaluation
• Self-Reinforcement

Additionally, in this issue you’ll learn about self-management as a part of pivotal response treatment (PRT). PRT is a “naturalistic child- and family-centered intervention that has been used to promote” social and communication skills in children with autism (Texas Autism Resource Guide for Effective Teaching, n.d.).

References

Alberto, P. A., & Troutman, A. C. (2009). Applied behavior analysis for teachers (8th ed.). Columbus, OH: Merrill Prentice Hall.

Texas Autism Resource Guide for Effective Teaching (n.d.). Retrieved August 22, 2010 from http://www.txautism.net/docs/Guide/Interventions/PRT.pdf

How to Make Money with Clickbank Website Programs

If you are searching Internet to find ways to make money online from your websites and blogs, you will end up seeing hundreds of ways. Some of them may be legit, but most of them will be just scam. Here on Bloggers Passion, I’m just going to share ways that actually helped me make money or I have confidence that they will help my blog readers make money from their websites. Today article is about how one can use Clickbank affiliate program to make money from their websites and blogs (Free as well as self hosted blogs). I myself had some success in making money while selling Clickbank products from my blogs. Now first of all, let me introduce you some basic stuff around this article.
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What is Affiliate Marketing?

With this kind of marketing, we sell other people’s product and get commission for each sale generated through our affiliate link. Suppose I’m promoting a make money online guide through my blog and the cost for that guide is $50. Its vendor is giving away a commission of 50% to its affiliates. So for each sale for this guide though my affiliate link, I will be making $25.

What is Clickbank?

Clickbank is a retail marketplace for selling digital products. They have thousands of ebooks available in various categories. Some of popular categories available in Clickbank marketplace are Arts & Entertainment, Business/Investing, Computers/Internet, Cooking/Foods, Games, Health & Fitness, Parenting, Politics and Software’s & Services etc. Mostly ebooks will be focused around how to fix a particular problem like how to walk your dog, how to lose weight, how to repair your xbox etc.

Ways to Make Money With Clickbank

You can make money in two ways with Clickbank. Firstly you can create your own products and sell them using Clickbank marketplace. You need to create a vendor account in order to list your product into their marketplace. With vendor account, you can set your product pricing and how much you ready to pay to affiliate for selling your product copies. Clickbank team handles most of technical challenges in that case. Suppose your product is sold via an affiliate, Clickbank will automatically credit the decided amount into respective affiliate account and rest will be credited into your account.
Second way to make money with Clickbank is working as an affiliate to promote products that are listed in its marketplace. There can be lots of reasons why you decided to go for second option like you don’t have the expertise to create a killer ebook or you don’t have the time or resources required to manage everything at vendor level. It’s better to go for affiliate option to start making money with Clickbank. So to start making money as affiliate with Clickbank affiliate program, you need to sign up for affiliate account with them.

Sign Up As Affiliate With Clickbank

Go to Clickbank.com website and create an affiliate link by clicking the Sign Up link shown in Affiliates Section. Fill in all required information and click the Submit Button. Once they approve your affiliate account, you are eligible for making money with their affiliate program.

Things to Keep in Mind As An Affiliate

You need to have a website or blog at least to make decent earnings with Clickbank affiliate program. If you don’t have a blog even, start creating one today around the topics you are most interested in and are most knowledgeable about. Once you have a blog running in active mode, go to Clickbank marketplace and choose some products matching your blog content. Suppose I thought of selling Clickbank products on Bloggers Passion, I would mostly look for products related to making money online, blogging and WordPress. Our chances of getting success with products that are not matching our blog theme are very rare. So we should choose products from Clickbank marketplace that are matching our blog niche. Steps that I’m mentioning in this guide will be applicable on stand alone websites, blogs, discussion forums, Squidoo Lenses, Hub Pages, Blogger free blogs (Blogspot), WordPress Based Blogs etc.
Apart from product relevance matching, there are some key factors you should take into consideration while choosing a product to promote on your website and blog. With each Clickbank product there are some statistics mentioned, let me explain them:
Initial $/sale: This is the average amount you will be earning for selling a product.
Avg $/sale: This is the average percentage you will make selling a product in lifetime.
Avg Rebill Total: This applies to those products only where vendor charge its customers recurring amount. Recurring payment systems are generally seen in membership and subscription based websites. So this is the amount you will be making on products that are re-billed.
Avg %/rebill: Again, this applies to products where some recurring charged occurs. So this is the average percentage you will be making on re-billed products only.
Grav: Gravity indicates numbers related to product popularity in Clickbank marketplace. Products with high gravity are those that are most promoted and where affiliates are making lots of income. But higher gravity means lots of competition for that keyword.
So I would suggest you to choose those products only:

1. That are related to your website/blog niche
2. You end up making $20 at least per sale
3. Go for products having gravity in the range of 50 to 120 only
4. Go for products that offers at least 50% commission. There are some products available in Clickbank marketplace that help you 75% commissions even
5. Now its time to look at the products websites you are thinking of promoting. If yourself are not satisfied with their landing pages, it will be difficult for you to convince your website readers to buy those products. You should go for products whose sales copies are well written and you are sure they will help your website readers to solve the problems for whom they are looking for solutions from your website.

So you should go for such products only that match the above shared criteria. Believe me there are lots of products available in this range in Clickbank marketplace and in your website categories.

How to Create HopLinks

By this time you have decided the products you want to sell through your online properties. Now its time to add affiliate links for various products you want to sell. For this, you need to create HopLinks for each product and add them into related articles and prominent positions on your website. To create a Hop Link for a product click on the Promote button as shown below and enter your Nickname in the next window available. Now copy your affiliate link and now you are ready to add this link into your website.

Google does not love thin content affiliate websites. So you should make sure, you are adding high quality content on your website. Apart from this, you should use nofollow attribute and Tiny URL’s etc to hide your affiliate links. Once you have added affiliate links and banners in your websites and blogs, its time to look for ways to bring lots of targeted traffic on your websites so that you can make good sales selling Clickbank products as an affiliate.

How to Promote Clickbank Based Websites

If you have created special websites around Clickbank products, you should make sure you are using seo optimized titles, URL’s and contents within your website pages. Once you have added some articles in the form of reviews and features around the product you are promoting, now its time to look for ways to get traffic to these Clickbank based websites.
On your website, you should write content that gives your website readers some sold reasons to buy those products. Apart from this, links and banners should be easily accessible to your website readers that they can use to buy products of their choice. If there are some offers, testimonials, reviews or money back guarantee (Which is available with most of Clickbank products) available with the product you are selling, please mention that in your website product content copy.
Here I’m sharing some methods one can use to promote their normal and affiliate websites (Clickbank, Amazon, LinkShare etc) and blogs:

1. Paid Advertising

If you have budget, you can try Google Adwords kind of pay per click programs to drive traffic to your affiliate websites. But the negative side to this promotion method is that you may end up losing some money if you are enable to get enough sales from the products you are selling through your website. I would recommend trying paid advertising methods when you have some numbers in hand like how many hops you require to get a sale. And how many clicks on your website will create a single hop. So you need to do all calculations around ROI. If you think paid advertising will help you get more sales. Go for it. But initially at least, I would recommend going for free traffic generation methods I’m sharing below.

2. Article Marketing

Article marketing is such a powerful technique for driving targeted traffic to a website that lots of Internet marketers use it only. To get article marketing to its fullest, we should write some interesting articles around the affiliate products we are selling though our website. I would recommend writing 15-20 articles at least for each product you are thinking of getting sales though your Clickbank based websites. Once you have some articles ready, start publishing them on top 10 article publishing websites. You should write your articles in a way that they actually clicks for your websites links available in article content and Author Bio section. People will not visit your website if they don’t find your articles interesting. You should include seo optimized anchors to link back to your website from article publishing websites. Having seo optimized backlinks will help your website rank well in search engines for terms matching your products. Apart from traffic you will be getting from search engines, you will be getting some referral traffic as there will be some user who will be visiting these article websites and will be visiting your website to know more details about the product you are promoting. Most of article websites does not allow affiliate links. So you should include links for your website targeted pages only in ezine publishing websites.

3. Guest Post Submissions

Write some interesting guest post around the products or topics related to your products and get them publish on top blogs matching your products niche. If your targeted products are related to making money online, you should go to blogs like Bloggers Passion to submit your guest post. You should link back to your website product pages with their respective anchor texts in your guest posts. Most of blog owners would allow you addition of one or two links in your guest post body or Author section.

4. Social Bookmarking Submissions

You should submit some interesting pages from your Clickbank based websites on top social bookmarking websites. Some of popular social bookmarking websites where you can submit your website and article pages are Digg.com, Delicious.com, Reddit.com, Google Buzz, HumSurfer.com etc.

5. Social Media Websites

Spread words about the product you are selling on popular social media websites including Facebook, Twitter, Google +1 etc. Create a strong Fan Page on Facebook and use that to drive additional traffic to targeted pages on your website.

6. Do Some Blog Commenting

Create a list of some blogs in your niche that are matching with your product categories and start writing comments on them with a link to your website. Blog commenting will help you get some targeted traffic to your website and will also give you additional links that you require to get your website into top 10 listing on Google and other search engines for their targeted terms.

7. Discussion Forums

Find some discussion forums matching your website niche and share your knowledge by answering the thread you are most knowledgeable about. Please don’t spam discussion forums with self-promotional links. With most of discussion forums, you are allowed to add few links in the signature sections.

Keep Track of Your Clickbank Earnings

After doing all the hard work, its time to check your Clickbank earnings. You should check how much money you are actually able to make from your websites and blogs though Clickbank products sales on weekly basis type. You should keep track of number of hops you are able to get for various products and look at ways to maximize them. I myself had some success selling 4-5 Clickbank products. When I was active on Clickbank, was able to make $100 plus dollar every month. I never gave too much effort for the promotion of Clickbank products. But I have seen lots of Internet marketers are bloggers are making their living through Clickbank products sales only.
How is your experience with Clickbank and what killer techniques you are using to get sales for your Clickbank products, please share your success stories in the comments section below so that other members in blogosphere can also help and motivation from you?

Discover How To Become A Better Singer In Just Days

 

 Hi, my name is Aaron Anastasi, and I am the founder of Superior Singing Method! I’ve been passionate about singing, and music, for most of my life, which is why I started playing guitar as a 13 year old and wrote and recorded my first record, of original songs, at 18. Since then, I’ve released four full-length records and two EPs, toured all over the US, part of South America and Europe and have worked in the studio, as an artist, with several Grammy Award winning producers. During that time, I worked my way through a Bachelor of Arts degree from Lee University in Tennessee (a long way from home for Huntington Beach, CA bred, surf punk!) and a Masters degree from Princeton in New Jersey. For years, I’ve put all that experience into teaching students how to sing, write songs and play guitar. And so I dedicate myself to constantly staying up-to-date on new and innovative training, exercises and vocal tips in order to pass this valuable information on to you, my reader, and help improve the quality of your life. And I practice what I preach. I don’t counsel my readers and students about vocal training and then not do the work myself. I’m currently working on a new record with a two-time Grammy award winning producer as well as performing live on a regular basis, so not only do I keep up on my own vocal program, I’m also constantly improving it so that both you and I, can have the most cutting edge program in order to be able to compete with the best. As I said, singing is my passion and I’d love to help make it your passion as well! So stay with me, and I won’t let you down…try out the Superior Singing Method, and enjoy the videos, and, I promise, you won’t be disappointed.
The singing tips presentation on this page will show you how to improve your singing voice, increase your range, have better breath control, and simply be a better singer in just a few minutes a day! You’ll be pleased to know this isn’t any type of gimmick… these are REAL techniques that I use and teach other people to get real results in making you a better singer. You’re going to want to watch the entire presentation to see exactly how I became a better singer, how thousands are simply copying my plan, and how you can do the same. Don’t forget! Watch the entire presentation, because you will be surprised!

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